Love, Law, and Legacy: How to Plan for What Happens Next with Shenali Lewke Bandara

In this episode of the Trends Property Insight Series with Andrew Johnson, Shenali Lewke-Bandara, one of Denham Bramwell's specialists in trusts, estates, and relationship property law, unpacks the often-overlooked legal structures that can protect your assets, relationships, and peace of mind.

With warmth and clarity, Shenali guides us through the key life stages where legal advice becomes crucial, from entering a relationship to owning property, starting a family, inheriting wealth, or planning for the unexpected.

Shenali shares why New Zealanders have more trusts per capita than anywhere else, and what that actually means for property ownership, intergenerational wealth, and blended family dynamics. She explains the differences between Wills, trusts, and Contracting Out Agreements (often referred to as prenups), and highlights how poorly managed trusts, unclear Wills, or lack of enduring powers of attorney can leave families vulnerable at the worst possible time.

Find out how personal circumstances, such as repartnering, children from previous relationships, or family businesses, add complexity to estate planning, and why it’s vital to have honest, sometimes uncomfortable conversations early, before legal assumptions or life’s curveballs take over. Shenali also emphasises the importance of coordinated advice, working alongside accountants and financial planners to ensure aligned, holistic decisions.

Whether you’re entering a new relationship, protecting inherited property, or helping your parents get their affairs in order, this episode will give you the language and confidence to take control of your legal wellbeing. Shenali’s message is simple but powerful: you don’t need to have all the answers,  you just need to start the conversation.